People Along the Way

Okay, I'll be the first one to admit it. In fact, I'll wave my hand wildly in the air when the question is asked, "Is the journey of life difficult?" In fact, I'll even readily share my "not so proud moments in the world of coping."

But, the wonderful thing about having a difficult journey sometimes is that you are presented with the opportunity to meet people along the way that make life just pretty darn amazing. The even more wonderful thing is that, had it not been for the hardship in the first place, you never would have had the chance to meet these people. So, if you follow my logic (not always easy, I admit), that means that the hardship in itself is a gift.

My first "People Along the Way" award tonight goes to Glen (I can't remember if it's one or two n's--okay, I Goodsearched him (that's another post for another time)--it' Glenn. I feel much better now having spelled him correctly).

Anyway, back to Glenn with two n's. Glenn is the adaptive P.E. teacher for Millard Public Schools. He has spent the last 15+ years improving physical education experiences for children with disabilities right here in our home district. Camille isn't even old enough to receive his official services....that starts in KDG. But, she has begun to reap Glenn benefits. We heard him speak about a year plus ago at a parent meeting. He and two colleagues organize and coach volunteers to provide swimming lessons to children with disabilities 3-4 different times throughout the year. Camille has been a part of them ever since. She just started a new session tonight, and Glenn told Bill that he is determined to have her swimming on her own in a jacket by the end of the session. She started at age 2 by holding on full body. Last session, she graduated to a swim belt with holding arms only, and then holding on to a swimming noodle. Now, the standard is higher. Why? Because Glenn only sees the possibilities. He doesn't see Camille as a former 25-weeker...with many set-backs....with poor vision....with limitations. He sees a capable Camille who may as well be a fish in her free time for as much as she loves the water. He refuses to set his sights on anything but potential.

Okay, so my point. The Glenn's of the world are the people who really get it. He truly doesn't buy into judging someone by what he perceives as their limitations. I suspect he knows we all have them. Instead, he sees the opportunity. And that makes him so much smarter of a human than those who look on people who have disabilities with pity. Or feel sorry or them. Or feel a step above them. Or wish them different.

Thank God for Glen. For the way he teaches us about life. For the way he lifts Camille up.